Whomever, wherever you are please accept our heartfelt thanks for returning
the most important of our stolen property. Thanks for looking into your
heart and deciding to return Kent's ski, KeNyA's 7th grade yearbook, photos
from her 8th grade school trip to Florida and most of the contents of my
briefcase and wallet. Our hearts were warmed and our faith in humanity
re-spirited.
We choose to believe you examined the papers in my briefcase and got a very personal glimpse of our life, perhaps you came here to our site as well. You saw us for who we are, what we do, what we try to do and realized we needed some help. Just like us, you did what you could at that particular time. All you could do to help was to return a part of our life, an irreplaceable part of our life. You have our heartfelt thanks for that.
Lots of people, including us, make poor choices from time to time. We
did the night we left our valuables in our unlocked car. You did when
you stole over $3,000 worth of stuff from our car (what you kept is valued at
$1200). While stealing isn't a good thing to do, it doesn't make you a
bad human, it makes you a person who makes some bad choices. You aren't
a bad human, or bad people, as evidenced by your keeping our stuff for a month
and then returning what was of no value to you, major value to us.
You are a person(s) behind being a thief. As you learned from going
through our papers, we are people behind being fools for leaving our car
unlocked. Thanks for letting your human side show.
Um, we'd still like to have everything returned (please and thanks). The
Billibong sweatshirt you kept once belonged to Former US DisAbledWaterSki
Team Bronze Medalist, Dave
Wysong. He was one cool guy and an awesome friend . . . he died
March 8th of this year. Every time Kent wore that sweatshirt he thought
of Dave, perhaps you will now too.
The hidden $100 bill was a gift from my son Chris' girlfriend, Sarah.
Everyone that knows us, including Sarah, knows that we support our ski pond
from our pockets, doing without many of the things most folks won't, so that
we can keep introducing people to this great family sport. Sarah sold
her truck and gave me that $100 bill to use at the pond (at the time we were
in need of a new boat carburetor). I tucked it away to save it until we
found the perfect use for it that would forever honor Sarah's gift as she had
honored us. Sarah died three weeks later from injuries sustained in a
car accident. Chris and Sarah's two teenage brothers were driving her
200 miles to help move her back home. A tire blew out, the car rolled
twice . . . and Sarah was the only one in the car not wearing a seat belt.
She was 20, Chris 23. We'd just left her funeral in Monterey the day we
drove to Redding. Did you see her Memorial folder on the front
floorboard by the candy you took? As you can tell, I was really bothered
by the theft of that $100 bill. Sarah and Chris are Christians, Chris is
working towards becoming a Youth Pastor. Sarah had a huge heart, always
giving. I'm sure she'd of said you must have needed the money more than
she. That was why she gave it to us, we needed it more than she.
I'd also like to have the two hand written notes from my daughters back, the
one from Steffie is 7 years old. The notes were to remind me I'm loved
even when my day isn't great. Just seeing the notes would make my day, whether
or not I read them.
Remember what I said about humans making bad choices? I loved Sarah, but she
had an issue with seat belts, wouldn't wear them. Her bad choice
resulted in her death, which is no big deal to her, she loved God and looked
forward to being in Heaven; but her bad choice was a big deal to others.
Her brothers, the two in the back seat the night she died and the one at home,
her parents, her friends, and Chris who was driving the night she died will
forever live with the consequences of her bad choice.
Our bad choice of not locking our car had the consequence of our stuff being
stolen, and us not having the ability to replace it immediately, some of it
ever, like that book of notes about our ski pond project, you saw I've been
writing in that for 2 years.
Not to diminish our thanks one bit, because we are very appreciative of your
returning what you did, but you should really think about finding a way to
return what you have or pay the dollar value. You are a decent human
being(s), we see that. Nevertheless, your bad choice is legally
considered Grand Theft. That probably means jail for you. Yuck,
that's someplace I never want to be, does it sound fun to you? It could
affect the rest of your life, and your family's too.
Please (and thanks) continue on the path of human kindness that you started
with us. That's what life's all about you know. Stuff doesn't
really count in the end, it's who you are, what you do with your time on the
planet. Through our association with waterSkiers with disabilities we've
learned the Secret of Life. It's ten words long, two letters per word.
"If it is to be, it is up to me!" Your life then, is up to
you.
You can't change what's happened, but you can change today and shape your
own future. Think about it, and thanks again:) We have faith
you'll do the right thing again. You may email us by clicking on
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